Marriage therapists have come up with the 8 most common marriage mistakes
1. Not putting each other first.
Couples forget each other needs due to work, family, chasing after kids and running through checks and balances and somewhere down the line and not making each other a priority.
2. Weak communication.
Not expressing when something is bothering you, and usually brews resentment. Communicate when things are not feeling right and expressing yourself or sharing when something is going wrong. The simplest things couples can do is talk, express and communicate.
3. Keeping secrets.
Everyday talk about your day, the things that frustrated you, or that you accomplished. Secrets can divide couples. Relationships are built on trust and resentment can stem from secrets.
4. Poor boundaries with family or friends.
As much as you love your family and friends they should not invade your home and life where it becomes destructive toward a marriage. You have to set limits, and set boundaries which is not easy when it comes to family.
5. Never apologizing or admitting that you are wrong.
Your marriage partner never expects you to be perfect but when you make a mistake just own up to it and the sooner the better, apologize and move forward. No excuses, no blame game, you’re not in kindergarten anymore.
6. Not showing gratitude.
Gratitude goes a long way, and not taking advantage of the moments just to say “Thank you,” don’t take your spouse for granted or their kindness. Appreciation without criticism goes a long, long way.
7. Exerting jealousy.
We are adults, and nobody wants to share their day and then be grilled or interrogated about who they talked to, what they said, or what they wore. Jealous behavior can drive somebody further away.
8. Shirking professional help.
Because every marriage takes work, compromise and sacrifice, sometimes it’s very helpful to seek marriage counselor. Always try to resolve issues between the two of you, but don’t cancel out the idea of working through the issues or troubles with a licensed marriage therapist.
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